Believe in the power of process!

Written By- Sargam Nagpal

As a human being, we often go through mixed emotions. We summon up all the positivity and start our day as bright as the sun rises but sadly getting affected by small gestures and things which happen opposite to our expectations make us reflect the characteristic of dusk. The evening sun looks beautiful even if it’s going low, but in our case we lose all the positivity and are just identified to be low at the end because of small things.

Being affected by others, watching them climb the success ladder faster is human nature because a human is always a victim of getting more and better than others. Jealousy, hate, anxiety gets consoled but are never addressed to get a solution to come out of it. Sometimes watching ourselves doing much and not getting the output disturbs us and triggers us to feel broken. Every soul needs a payback. We are so much into the idea of getting a payback of our hard work that we never came across the thought that ‘this waiting process is teaching us PATIENCE.’

Reflecting upon common human behavior, we can analyze that we all have walked on mistaken paths. Paths which make us impatient or doubt our own self and destiny are the one called to mistaken paths. All creators are fortunate with the same lives, but only those who practice a routine of patience, develop a healthy lifestyle. Human nature has a tendency to look to the product and then judge, act for more... but the true story doesn’t lie in watching butterflies flying and uttering ‘it’s beautiful ‘, the real world tells us about the process of a sophisticated egg turning into larva , pupa and then a real output- the utterly beautiful butterfly it had become.

If we tend to dare to dream we should definitely accept the process of waiting. Believe in destiny and trust the timing of god, this makes an individual simplify the jumbled paths. The phrases and quotes which mark ‘importance of hardwork’ in life are of course said and put publically after considering experiences of many. The main motive is to never stop after any heart ache, life happens and that is what life actually is - a roller coaster. The idea of always keeping moving/ working should get inbuilt in our systems because we are meant to move. If we were expected to be stuck we would have been given roots like trees not feet like humans.

Being compared is okay but only till we don’t over think upon the same. If one is being overprotective and feeling insecure, we need to re- learn and remember the mantra that ‘’our biggest power is we ourselves.‘’ The things you have got might still be the dream of many. Whenever being hurt by doing a lot of hard work and not getting output remember that: “this time of struggle is making you strong.”

Being satisfied is the toughest job but tough never meant impossible. Just LET GO things which distract you from the goal and be grateful in every breath. Murmur and murmur again that last night was actually the last one for someone but you got a new chance called morning and of course buckle up and unfold your highest potential.

“Because One Day, Every Dot Will Connect”